Yet you in all of your grace and mercy has promised to bring good out of bad situations. I have faith that I will see my father again, however. Watch popular content from the following creators: mannynauman(@mannynauman), haihebah(@haihebah), Amani Al-Zafiri(@amanialzafiri), Jamal(@2sxcjamal), Samah(@samahh.ayy), R B(@rbraqa), Mehdi & Mubina(@mehdinatv), lildamra(@lildamra), Mera(@kozamera), farzana . I lost my fiancee in February 2019 to a car accident. He was her life companion and friend. It is a full embodiment of modesty. He was a believer as is my aunt and so they will be together again. You may never know how much your prayers have saved them from being hurt or lonely, whatever they face try to cover them in their needs. Do my grandma and grandpa miss me even though theyre in Heaven? Sorry for your loss friend and know there are many like you who miss their loved ones beyond expression and are just hoping, waiting to see or hear them, even to get just a glimpse once againI did see him 3-4 times in my dreams though- and that does help momentarily, that morning I am very satisfied and happy because I feel my dad talked to me:) I just keep telling my dad, dont you forget me papa, I miss you. Hear his voice. I feel selfish for wanting that. The story you have shared about your life with Porter was one of the most honest and humbling things I have ever read. thank you for sharing these insights, such a blessing. Hold on to those memories and know that you will one day be reunited. Was told federal law said There are some people who are permissible to see a woman without her Hijab. Even the story of the rich man and Lazarus in Luke 16 speaks of the rich man seeing heaven (Abrahams side) from Hades, but not that he could see earthly beings (he speaks of his brothers being warned, but most scholars believe this is b/c he already knew their characters and the lives theyd led before he died). Thanks for sharing your story. Live them on your special dayand youll both be happy. Maybe he really is watching. Stay up-to-date with the latest posts delivered right to your inbox. Micca, my husband Jeffrey of six years, three months, and 28 days went home to be with Jesus on October 5th, 2013. I did not tell him I loved him enough and was not there when it happened. I am only 60but it was just me and himno childrenmy sister is my only comfort..friends seem to disappear when grief is aroundmy church was held me upbless them. Besides these groups of men, a woman needs to wear hijab in front of any other man, whether at home or outside. How many people go like this? Everyday i want to go be with him..i want him to wake up bc its happened before..everything that was ours i now have to give away bc no will no marriage..life sux. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Theres so much to do. What can I do without having a husband so many years. Dear Elizabeth, Im so sorry for your loss. Ive been there. The bible tells us He understands our sorrow and loss. Do I like the idea of being reunited? God keeps providing for me even in my grief and although I have been doing okay in the last month since loosing my father November 16, 2012 this morning was tough driving to work. For more benefit, please refer to Fatwa 84143. Isaiah 61 reminds me that a garment of salvation & hope can grow out of such a valley. Ive lost my 13 yr old son last April 13, 2017, my eldest child, my only son, my special son, very devastating for a mother to accept the fact that my son is no longer with me. For a woman to cover her face, hair, forearms etc. The most recent and dearest to me in the last 5 years. I was so scared with our 3 year old son. But you do it. The drunk survive, there havent been a arrest. Does he still love me ABGKLMST 82 - Rule: It is not a problem to wear clothing that has braids or laces made of silk, or if it has a patch or emblem made of silk on it. Micca, Thank you for sharing your story and offering insight and scripture to help those of us still grieving. I lost my Grandma a week before my birthday this past June. So now, after giving up my dream of earthly togetherness, my dream now is more focused on heavenly togetherness. Most of all he was a wonderful and loving husband to his wife of 25 years. My 25 year old sister. A sweet friend of mine is battling with the loss of her husband to leukemia a few months ago. Thank you & to all of you who posted comments & lost someone special I am so sorry. Something, or some angel just giving me straight forward sign- no riddles. Can he hear me I try my very best not to cry to much, as I type this comment I am shedding some tears and I am in my office at work. Im praying for you, friend. Thank you for your message today. Tom was 73 yrs old very full of life and amibition even after all he suffered with Cancer. She was the driving force of her family, a family with strong Christian values, as well as huge player of good in her community. It is not permissible for a girl to take off her Hijab in the presence of her step-mother's father or brothers as they are not Mahaarim (non-marriageable relatives) to her; rather she is a marriageable woman to them. I lost my dad 9years ago. It sounds like you were very close to your mom and shared a lot together. We had no regrets but the sadness and homesickness. I did not want to live without him right then and there but, he has visited me five times since he has been gone and on the last visit he came as a spirit outlined in silver looked younger and we were in a beautiful park with all these people I have never seen before and I heard someone call my sisters name who had died a year earlier. #trinity #christian #worship #praise #church #trinity #mission #prayer #jesus #music #hymns He loves this child and he loves you. Lou, Dear Micca. Thank you Micca for this encouragement on a day when I really needed some Your past experience is sad but the glory of God shines through you. I miss her all the time and sometimes Ill think I need to call my mom or I need to go see my mom. She knows exactly what its like to ache for your husband in every way then deal with the mystery and questions of one day seeing him again. He wanted to write me a letter for when I graduate and he got so sick he totally forgot about it. I would love to read it. I had regret when he passed. Thank you for your blog todayso wonderful to hear how God ministered to your grieving heart and reminded you that its not goodbye but until we meet again. But Im glad God sends us so many things to comfort us, including books like yours which help us to remember what we so often lose in the clutter of our daily lives. Get involved with helping people that are less fortunate then we are, help the needy and the elderly. That Jesus is our comforter. If you need encouragement or know someone who does, leave a commitment and enter to win! 2) Start drawing firm boundaries - ask them to knock or ring the bell before they come into the house. I hope I have been able to help you some way by letting you know that someone else is dealing with the same issue as you. Unshakeable faith. I come from North African background and it's common in my community for women to not wear hijab. I asked her why she didnt let me talk to him. This I know for sure. So, this passage doesnt necessarily mean our deceased loved ones can (or want to) see us. I used to phone my dad everyday from work at 10:am in the morning. I must say I have no joy in my life or desire to live. Within the first 3 months of his passing, someone trying to be helpful reminded me the word says we will not be married in heaven. After 47 years of marriage, my mom lost my dad instantly - Nivine Like this: Loading. Can you please tell me, that how hijab must be kept with workers in house? my world ended completely when my only son my most gorgeous son was killed on January 15,2018. my every thought is him, my every breath is for him, I cant wait to reunite with him when its my time to leave this earth. I too have many questions about heaven, but I have grown to have a great longing to go home to see my Savior and my precious grandson who would be three years old this December. When my husband died at 28. I hate every morning that I wake up. Your email address will not be published. I know she is in heaven and I will see her again but it is really hard not talking to her every day. God sees every drop. Its good to know we are not alone in this. I just feel like I need more confirmation or comfort that hes here with us or keeping an eye on us and that he cares still. Help Justin to hold onto your promises. Is the Father a Dayooth if his Daughter Doesn't Wear Hijab? I know what a blessing it is to find someone you fit together with so much and they were IT! CATHX, I too feel the same , my husband died 2 monthes ago , it wouldve bee. Is it because I see her grave? He was a strong man of God and lived his faith everyday. When he did he kept his head turn. Copyright IslamWeb 2023. Hi.i just lost my dad 3 weeks back..he was my hero.n always showed us the brighter side of everything.i still live a part of him in me.thanks for your words of assurance.. Natasha, Im so sorry for your loss. Although they passed shortly after birth, they were and still are deep in my heart. I lost my husband who was 44 years old, 7 years ago. I am sure that your book would be inspirational in helping her to come to terms with her loss. Dear Lorraine, Im so sorry for the loss of your sweet son. Dont run from God, but run to God. Strengthen him with power from above. You can see my work here: www.madewithsweetness.etsy.com. I would love to give her your book. I know she would be touched by it. I would like to read this book and then pass it on so it can be a blessing to these women. I lost the love of my life two years age dec 9th. I dont know. I believe we will see our loved ones in heavenhowever, scripture states there is no marriage in heaven and gender seems to be eliminated, also. Your parents' descendants (your brother, your brothers' sons, your sisters' sons. When I do I usually respond with asking God to send her a message and remind myself Ill see her again soon. One day I hope to be a blessing to widows in such a way as well. I testify that there is none worthy of worship except Allaah, and that Muhammad is His slave and Messenger. My brother has recently lost his wife of 40 years can you please send him a book will gladly pay but can not stand to see him in so much pain. I hope you can. I lost my husband almost 4 years ago and I also wonder if he can look down and see me. There wasnt a day that went by I didnt spend time with her for our evening meals and TV shows. Please pray for me. Your recent posts have really helped me walk through a difficult time. Practical suggestions. I have been praying for his return to me, I know nothing is impossible with God if we have FAITH in him. Then, thank him for dying on the cross in your place so that you can have everlasting life. What was I to do with that dream now? I have read so many conflicting views on Can my husband see me I literally got every type of rainbow imaginable. Some days its hard to get through cause of the memories we have. Sometimes but we have no biblical basis to assume they are watching. I imagine my husbands likeness as being whole again beautiful, strong, happy and brilliant. I share my story in my book entitled, An Untroubled Heart. I have said a prayer for you, friend. Not only on P31, but here on your blog as well. He suffered a heart attack and a stroke at the same time. However, compared to Jesus, seeing our loved ones is secondary. Im so lost. But, having two babies in Heaven whom I lost to miscarriages (one in 2010 and one just this year in 2013) Ive found myself thinking more of Heaven. We were married for 47 years. I was thinking all weekend long..Why am I still here. Thank you for your encouraging words. Some days it just takes something from out of the blue to bring everything flooding back, but knowing we will see him again one day is so comforting. I unfortunately was attacked in 2006, I have CPTSD and a memory block, and my ability to remember what Ive read take in new information or remember much of my knowledge in the past is affected badly so these days I rely on sound teachers of the word on line to help me. It was my first experience of death upclose and the first time I truly remember feeling Gods presence helping the both of us. Because of my upbringing, I knew God was the only one I could depend on to get me through. I miss him more than anyone really understands. Crazy scary smart. These things are part of our fallen world. He wants you to enjoy your graduation and celebrate all youve achieved. The loss of my son has been harder than losing my mom . However, if there is a reason which makes her a Mahram, like by suckling relationship and the like, then they become Mahaarim to her and she is not be obliged to wear Hijab in front of them. I would be honoured to win a copy of your book!! I. It may feel like that isnt truth right now but feelings tend to lie to us.

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